tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35821896123815836182024-03-05T20:28:58.754-08:00Men's Rights in IndiaA blog to celebrate manhood and men's rights!Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-24417627704289603852010-07-13T22:34:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.558-08:00Man seeks maintenance from live-in partner<p>It is a a sign that Indian men are not taking it lying down.  A man in Hyderabad has asked for monthly maintenance from his working live-in partner of 10 years, relying on a recent Supreme Court judgment which allowed maintenance to a woman from her live-in partner.  It is to be noted that there is as yet no provision in Indian law for maintenance to a man from live-in partner, but it is a sign that men are asserting their rights based on what is available to women.  If a woman in live-in relationship is allowed to get same benefits as a married woman, then why the same logic can’t be applicable to a man?</p> <p><a title="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Man-seeks-alimony-from-partner/articleshow/6164976.cms" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Man-seeks-alimony-from-partner/articleshow/6164976.cms">http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Man-seeks-alimony-from-partner/articleshow/6164976.cms</a></p> <p>HYDERABAD: Giving gender equality a fresh twist, a jobless man has sought Rs 8,000 a month as alimony from his 'gainfully' employed partner. </p> <p>This gender bender case, which has landed at the Andhra Pradesh High Court, however, gets even more curiouser in its detail.<strong> The couple in question are not legally wedded but have been in a live-in relationship for the last 10 years and even have a daughter. </strong></p> <p>The Mahbubnagar-based couple's happily ever after story hit a roadblock when the woman, who is 42, in a fit of rage filed a case of 'dowry harassment' against her jobless live-in partner, who is 51, alleging that he was physically assaulting her. </p> <p>The woman, a multi-purpose health worker with a government hospital with a decent monthly salary of Rs 20,000 (especially in the context of a small town like Mahbubnagar), even moved out of the house with the child. </p> <p>With sections 498 A, 506 and 509 of IPC pressed against him, the man moved the AP High Court seeking anticipatory bail stating that the charges were invalid since the two were never legally married. And then he served a googly — he filed a simultaneous petition seeking maintenance of Rs 8,000 from his live-in partner of 10 years. </p> <p>When the case first came up for hearing at the High Court a few days ago, the <strong>counsel representing the</strong> <strong>man referred to a recent Supreme Court judgment wherein the apex court had granted alimony to a woman in a live-in relationship from her partner citing that the number of years the two had put together were 'considerable', akin to a marriage</strong>. The man in this case has now pinned his hope on the apex court verdict with his counsel arguing how he too has put in 10 years of his life into this relationship and is thus a 'considerable' time period for him to earn his alimony from the earning partner. </p> <p>In the first hearing, the HC judge had asked the man's counsel to look into the merits of the case himself and also consider whether the SC judgment can apply here, given the difference in the gender of the alimony seeker. <br />A similar case was filed by a Tamil Nadu resident Kalaiselvan who had sought a whopping Rs 25 lakh from his ex-wife, a news story that flashes on many websites catering to aggrieved husbands. But the judgment on the case is awaited. </p> <p>On Tuesday, the HC posted the Mahbubnagar man's alimony petition case for its next hearing on July 30. Clearly, an unusual gender test for the AP High Court. </p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-19827645225103299392010-07-13T22:33:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.574-08:00One more false molestation case falls flat<p>Blah blah blah… blah blah blah…that is the sound and fury of crazed feminists whenever they get news of a high profile case where a professional woman alleges molestation or sexual harassment against male co-workers or superiors. </p> <p><a title="http://epaper.dnaindia.com/newsview.aspx?eddate=7/12/2010&pageno=1&edition=9&prntid=120506&bxid=30693604&pgno=1" href="http://epaper.dnaindia.com/newsview.aspx?eddate=7/12/2010&pageno=1&edition=9&prntid=120506&bxid=30693604&pgno=1">http://epaper.dnaindia.com/newsview.aspx?eddate=7/12/2010&pageno=1&edition=9&prntid=120506&bxid=30693604&pgno=1</a></p> <p>The earlier air hostess incidents were found to be complete cock and bull stories.  Now it is turn for an army officer with rank of Lt Gen to be held not guilty.  But the officer’s reputation was clearly affected because of this.  See earlier news below:</p> <p><a title="http://www.newstrackindia.com/newsdetails/161763" href="http://www.newstrackindia.com/newsdetails/161763">Lt. Gen. Nanda neither resigned, nor asked to resign: Ministry of Defence clarifies</a></p> <blockquote> <p>Preliminary investigations show that there are number of loopholes in the account of allegations. </p> <p>Further investigations are in progress. It is also clarified that Lieutenant General AK Nanda has neither resigned nor been asked to put up his resignation. He is holding the appointment of the Engineer-in-Chief," said a Ministry of Defence release on Thursday evening. (ANI)</p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-26005105472332059892010-07-13T22:27:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.584-08:00Men should fight for their own rights, of course!<p>It is interesting that in a panel discussion on women and violence/ safety, the panellists are venting frustration about men’s rights activists (MRAs).  See the news and my comments below:</p> <p><a title="http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/Hyderabad/article304563.ece" href="http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/Hyderabad/article304563.ece">http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/Hyderabad/article304563.ece</a></p> <h5><a href="http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/Hyderabad/"></a></h5> HYDERABAD, March 25, 2010 <blockquote> <p>For every woman who is fighting for a law to protect her rights, there are a handful of men who say: what about us?</p> <p>“Why don't they struggle for their rights,” asks Flavia Agnes. The fiery women's rights lawyer was here on Wednesday for a panel discussion on “Women and Violence/ Safety.” </p> <p><strong>“Men need to stop taking away the gains of the women's movement,”</strong> she said. “<strong>Women are fighting for their rights because men and women are not equal. If you make laws assuming they are equal, the law will hardly serve its purpose.”</strong> </p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Comments: </strong>So the feminists seem to be frustrated by the activities of a handful of MRAs!  Organisations like Save Indian Family Foundation and AIMWA (All India Men’s Welfare Association) have taken the fight for men’s rights into the feminists camp, and they are not very happy that they have to now play football with a real opposition team in front, while all this while they could score goals since there was no opposition team to begin with.</p> <p><em>And that point about men and women being equal or not equal.  </em>These feminists have guts to say in the same sentence that men and women are equal, and that men and women are not equal.  Heads I win, tails you lose!</p> <blockquote> <p>India's legal system dominated the discussion - panellists agreed that despite their rigid formality, the courts were the only place where victims of rape, dowry harassment or any other assault could demand justice. </p> <h5>Points to ponder</h5> <p>But for them to get justice, other things would have to change. Stop expecting women to be this or that, said historian Urvashi Butalia. <strong>“People seem shocked that women harass women. But we can be as nasty, rude and aggressive as a man. Why should we be expected to behave any differently?”</strong></p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Comments: </strong><em>Shocked that women can be as nasty, rude, and aggressive as men? </em>Not me!  And not the men’s rights activists who believe strongly that the bias in laws in favour of women is just plain nonsense in garb of women empowerment, constitutional provisions for women, and so on.</p> <blockquote> <p>The law will respond to violence against women when society responds to it rather than merely trying to cure it. “We spend too much time thinking about how to make men better husbands,” Ms. Agnes said. <strong>“But the question is why are women committing suicide when they have the option of obtaining a divorce?”</strong></p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Comments: </strong>How people are out of touch with reality.  <strong>The men’s rate of suicide is double that of women, and in fact increasing continuously since 2002 while the suicide rate of women is stable.</strong>  Of course, this comment comes from a feminist who believes women ought to be happier living their lives away from men  -- an assertion most women themselves will not agree with!</p> <blockquote> <p>When the law offers them a way of exiting their marriage, why do women continue to struggle or suffer? “Is suicide the only choice she can afford to make? We need to ask ourselves that.” </p> <p>NALSAR professor Dr. Amita Dhanda also spoke. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-32415827617612269382010-07-10T06:20:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.594-08:00UN super agency to help women or help radical feminists?<p>A recent news has made a United Nations’ super-agency out of 4 existing agencies working for benefit of women.  Read full news later:</p> <p>It is however not clear if this move will really help in empowerment of women.  Most likely the consolidated funds will be used to strengthen the position of the few top feminists in these organisations.</p> <p><a title="http://www.c-fam.org/publications/id.1660/pub_detail.asp" href="http://www.c-fam.org/publications/id.1660/pub_detail.asp">http://www.c-fam.org/publications/id.1660/pub_detail.asp</a></p> <p>By <strong><a href="http://www.c-fam.org/about_us/id.1/author_detail.asp">Samantha Singson </a></strong><strong><a href="http://www.c-fam.org/about_us/id.38/author_detail.asp">Amanda Pawloski </a></strong></p> <blockquote> <p>     NEW YORK, July 8 (C-FAM)  Last Friday the General Assembly voted to consolidate four separate United Nations (UN) bodies dedicated to women’s issues into one new gender equality entity called “UN Women.” The resolution capped a victory for radical feminists who lobbied for years for the new entity and is the latest in an overall push to bring women’s issues even more onto the UN agenda. <br />     After four years of sometimes harsh negotiations, member states agreed on simplifying the disjointed efforts of four UN offices dedicated to women’s issues; the United Nations Development Fund for Women (UNIFEM), the International Research and Training Institute for the Advancement of Women (INSTRAW), Division for the Advancement of Women (DAW) and the Office of the Special Advisor on Gender Issues and Advancement of Women (OSAGI). <br />     The framework for UN Women is the Beijing Platform for Action, which calls for an end to discrimination against women especially highlighting education, employment, political participation and human rights. An Under-Secretary-General appointed by UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon will head the new body and member states are calling for a prompt appointment before the General Assembly meets in September. Many are speculating that former Chilean President Michelle Bachelet will be chosen. Bachelet is a socialist who promoted reproductive health and women’s rights during her political career. The Under-Secretary-General will hold a 4-year term with a possibility of one renewable term. <br />     The Gender Equality Architecture Reform (GEAR) campaign, a coalition of radical feminist groups and abortion advocates, has relentlessly lobbied to create a UN super-agency to deal with women’s issues. Charlotte Bunch, executive director of the Centre for Women's Global Leadership and the leading advocate of the GEAR campaign, said, “We have high expectations for this new agency [...] The coalition of women’s groups and other social justice, human rights and development organizations that played a pivotal role in this effort will now turn its efforts toward ensuring that the new body has the human and financial resources necessary to succeed.” <br />     The new body will be governed by an executive board consisting of 41 members: 10 African, 10 Asian, 4 Eastern European, 5 Western European/Other States, 6 Latin American/Caribbean, and 6 from contributing countries, of which 4 seats are allocated to the largest donor countries and 2 seats to donors from developing countries. <br />     Some member states have expressed concern that the cultures and objectives of recipient countries would not be respected. The resolution reaffirms that there is no “one size fits all” approach to development assistance, reflecting what is generally a split between rich industrial states where radical feminism holds sway and poorer countries where basic necessities must be met. <br />     Wendy Wright, President of Concerned Women of America, told the Friday Fax, "Women need respect and opportunity, not a global agency demanding money and power for its well-heeled elitist leaders. <strong>The money would be better spent going directly to the areas and people in need with programs that have proven to work, not to another agency to empower the people who run it."</strong></p> </blockquote> <p><strong></strong></p> <p>The money meant to be spent on women empowerment and on poor women usually goes to fund lifestyles of radical feminists associated with few ‘top’ women organisations.  A proof of that can be seen in glaring mismanagement of funds shown in Comptroller and Auditor General of India’s (CAG) audit report on NCW (National Commission for Women) here:</p> <p><a title="http://commandos.in/wiki/rti/real/central/dept/cag/cagreportonncw/reply" href="http://commandos.in/wiki/rti/real/central/dept/cag/cagreportonncw/reply">http://commandos.in/wiki/rti/real/central/dept/cag/cagreportonncw/reply</a></p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-57996652555713515392010-05-10T22:29:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.608-08:00Domestic violence survey on men is welcome step<p> Recently a high court judge had said in a seminar that if he went strictly by definition of Indian domestic violence act against women(PWDVA), he will be guilty of domestic violence on his wife.  Actually, if the domestic violence act was made gender neutral, his wife will also be guilty of domestic violence on him.  This is because the definition of domestic violence is defined to be very broad, and further a woman has simply to allege to get the wheels of justice (read: torture for men) in motion.</p> <p><a title="http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOICH/2010/04/19&PageLabel=19&EntityId=Ar01901&ViewMode=HTML&GZ=T" href="http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOICH/2010/04/19&PageLabel=19&EntityId=Ar01901&ViewMode=HTML&GZ=T">http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOICH/2010/04/19&PageLabel=19&EntityId=Ar01901&ViewMode=HTML&GZ=T</a></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Seeking to counter certain “exaggerated” claims made by some women’s organisations and in a bid to draw the attention of the government to the plight of men victimised by lop-sided laws drafted on the basis of such claims, men’s organisations in the city have now embarked upon the task of conducting a massive domestic violence survey. </strong></p> <p> <br />  <strong>  The results of the nationwide survey, widely believed to be the first of its kind for men in the country,</strong> will be used to find out if whether Indian men too are victims of domestic violence, the percentage of Indian men subjected to such violence and the kind of violence they are subjected to. </p> <p> <br />    The need for the survey has been triggered, it seems, by the controversial Domestic Violence Act - 2005, which seems to have been drafted on the assumption that only women suffer domestic violence. </p> <p> <br />    Says Suresh Ram, member of the All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA), an NGO working for the rights of men and boys, “Certain women’s organisations have been stereotyping the issue of domestic violence. They have presented a picture that conveys the impression that only women are victims of domestic violence while we have with us global surveys and over 250 scholarly studies that show that women are at least as likely as men to engage in partner aggression and that partner violence is often mutual. This fact is established if one goes through the Domestic Violence Study conducted by a well known global organisation that <br />has done the survey in over 32 countries including India. However, the Domestic Violence Act in India offers protection to only women and not men.” He further adds, “So, to set things right, we men’s organisations have joined hands to ensure that a credible and transparent survey on the issue is done. Eight men’s organisations are involved in this effort which is being led by the AIMWA. We have begun negotiations with survey agencies to conduct the survey in certain cities of the country including Chennai, Delhi, Kolkata, Bangalore and Hyderabad. We intend to publish the results on Nov 19, the International Men’s Day.” So, what do they intend to achieve by conducting such a survey? Says Suresh, “We intend to create an awareness in society about the problems faced by men. We wish to present to them the real situation in society. We will also seek to draw the government’s attention to issues concerning men and reiterate our demand for setting up a National Commission for Men and a Men’s Welfare Ministry.” Men in the city are delighted with the move by the men’s organisations. Welcoming such a survey, Shankar, a graphics designer, says, “I certainly welcome the move. It is high time that facts were presented on this issue.” Women too seem to be for such a survey. Says Dakshayini Sampath, a media professional, “While I think that more number of women suffer domestic violence, it’s also possible that men are victims. I think the law should hold good for both genders and if this survey is going to help bring about a uniform law, then I’m all for it.” </p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-43011534524375047542010-05-10T22:17:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.618-08:00Will feminists ask for equal opportunities in such deadly jobs?<p>Refer to news below about death of miners in Russia in dangerous mines.</p> <p><a title="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article7121731.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&attr=797093" href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article7121731.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&attr=797093">http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article7121731.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&attr=797093</a></p> <blockquote> <p><strong>Rescuers were searching desperately for 58 people still missing in a Russian coal mine yesterday as the death toll from twin methane blasts rose to 32.</strong> </p> <p>Hopes were fading of finding survivors more than 450 metres underground at the Raspadskaya pit in Siberia, Russia’s largest underground mine. Eighteen of the victims have been rescuers who died in the second explosion on Sunday after going in search of miners trapped by the first blast late on Saturday. </p> <p><strong>Twelve miners died and 71 were hurt in that explosion as 370 people worked underground at the mine in the Kemerovo region</strong>. Sergei Shoigu, the Emergency Situations Minister, said that the body of the 31st victim, a rescue worker, had been recovered as a large-scale search mission resumed. </p> </blockquote> <p>The feminists take great pains to point out statistics about why there is still less percentage of women CEOs in corporations, why women are being denied powerful jobs, there is a glass ceiling blah blah… They never seem to highlight the fact that even today, most of the deadly, dangerous, life-threatening, debilitating jobs are done by men and which do not pay any great amounts either!</p> <p>Men who become CEOs also have to go through years of grind, being away from family on travel, miss out on life beyond work, to be able to have a chance at reaching that position.  It is not served to them on a platter simply because of their gender.  But for feminists, the logic of female supremacy reigns supreme, that just by her gender, a woman should be entitled to <strong>equal outcomes, </strong>irrespective of whether she is willing to put up same amount of work or travel to reach a top job.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-15467000489921285452010-05-09T23:07:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.630-08:00Will the real opposition to dowry stand up please?<p>This is the response received to an RTI application filed on Women and Child Development Ministry.  According to this RTI response, WCD ministry has not spent a single Rupee on any advertisement campaign against dowry, or extravagant marriages in Apr 2009-Mar 2010.</p> <p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqgAZ6OJv318GWw83z2cxEolNHpo5xnu7IJUBP3he5ggE6Xk1LQX_8tKfZQEutxGESeB-oTYZxKn6azvqSE2bdJ2aIzlQo4WU3vGqbuuuaO6CUr4iLB8UJByUiT3nt_Gd0u01k6Jsr4x0a/s1600-h/WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage.jpg"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage" border="0" alt="WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWeBNVx9xE3EhLNl4yvN97eCceK4QtYQhBx-dx00sidNoCxeuEh-G7u_VBBoOCz6RKBmWSXnxWyZcZNuYVAG5t7GmolEaRNpdwwLUBA3lNg84kGXynYjrRanxp-DbTXsGZeioXOiAlFvj-/?imgmax=800" width="171" height="236" /></a> </p> <p>RTI response is also given in PDF format below:</p> <p><a title="http://dl.dropbox.com/u/2371641/RTIs_SIFF/WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage.pdf" href="http://dl.dropbox.com/u/2371641/RTIs_SIFF/WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage.pdf">http://dl.dropbox.com/u/2371641/RTIs_SIFF/WCD-RTI-anti-dowry-exp-marriage.pdf</a></p> <p>This is the same WCD ministry which had bungled and carried out an advertisement issued on the occasion of the National Girl Child Day that carried a photograph of the former Pakistan Air Force chief, Tanvir Ahmed Mahmood.</p> <p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLKPDdBFkLyY8-8nXIvzhFSNsEqid0csBckKUTVc9XUlFnmUe-aPocWia4DJ_tVoeANmp1U5JJqXe7ebsGtftUs9fvn7JSlQ41v72E1K-U7HuuUdvPhHHotRBEkRCn1J9751vPzUXd6trY/s1600-h/image%5B1%5D.png"><img style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; display: inline; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px" title="image" border="0" alt="image" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiPIbndG2vLSMQrNb4Y_Vowv5R6gPV0VNuqvZLRQ8yvmDq4US2Sp14tWVelpPZ1z2qoAlQ1L655S3-9reaVCJeLyEWgJ2feFbZiTU-iA79KPy_ZJoQpYfSg_suqUs2TriZ__tCYSN9Ax-Rl/?imgmax=800" width="236" height="124" /></a> </p> <p>So it seems they WCD does not spend any money on reducing dowry and extravagant marriages… and when they do spend money on a women’s issue, it is bungled so badly that Prime minister’s office (PMO) has to issue an apology on behalf of WCD.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-64846212369533906552010-04-21T08:56:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.641-08:00Man gets divorce confirmation from Mumbai HC after 18 years<p>So if you are a man and want divorce, pray that your wife breaks into your house after alleging you are having extra-marital affair, and hopefully in your lifetime you will be granted divorce by supreme court, err high court in this case.  Surely things are improving for men since Supreme Court’s Justice Katju’s comment to a husband who had applied for divorce: “you have waited for 17 years, you can wait for few more months”.</p> <p><a title="http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_false-allegations-of-infidelity-can-be-ground-for-divorce_1373294" href="http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_false-allegations-of-infidelity-can-be-ground-for-divorce_1373294">http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_false-allegations-of-infidelity-can-be-ground-for-divorce_1373294</a></p> <blockquote> <p>Mina’s act of breaking into Amit’s house and alleging that he was having an extramarital affair were enough to prove the charge of cruelty, the court said. “The appellant [Mina] must have obviously caused tremendous hardship, inconvenience, unnecessary expenses, and mental anguish to the respondent,” the judges said in their order. “Such conduct would definitely constitute cruelty.”</p> <p>Mina said she wanted to live with Amit, but the court observed that the couple had been living separately for 18 years, of which 10 were under the same roof.</p> <p>Upholding the family court’s order granting divorce, the judges said, “The conduct of preventing the respondent from entering the matrimonial home is not the conduct of a wife who wants the marriage to be continued. Similar is the conduct of making unprovoked false allegations of an extramarital affair.”</p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-14735880468922769592010-04-13T02:28:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.651-08:00Indian men facing domestic violence in New Zealand from wives<p>I found this story interesting in the sense that it is like an analogy to those stories of women being married to men in another country and then being made to work like slaves, and not given due respect.  Well, don’t blame everything on men.  See for yourselves what kind of abuse unscrupulous women are capable of:</p> <p><a title="Male victims speak out on marriage abuse" href="http://www.indiannewslink.co.nz/index.php/frontpage/4310.html">Male victims speak out on marriage abuse</a></p> <blockquote> <p>29/03/2010 13:16:00 Venkat Raman <br /></p> <p>Contrary to popular belief, women are not the only victims of family violence, failed or fraudulent marriages. An increasing number of men are beginning to speak out with horrifying tales of misuse and abuse, including false complaints to the Police. </p> <p>Following our front-page story, India moves to end fraudulent marriages published in our March 1, 2010 issue, a number of male readers of Indian Newslink have contacted us to narrate their predicament, seeking justice from the Governments of New Zealand and India, stating that they are at their wits end. </p> <p>While we have reason to believe the veracity of their statements, we have protected their identity for obvious reasons. </p> <p>Wellington based Paramjit (not his real name) told us of the `extreme verbal and physical abuse' that he suffered soon after migrating to New Zealand from his native India where he married a Fiji-born woman resident in this country. </p> <p>"I worked hard to keep my wife and my parents-in-law (joint family) happy. I soon adopted myself to the domestic and professional environment. Although I earn high income compared to many other people of Indian origin, I was subject to ridicule and humiliation both at home and in public by my wife. She often told me that I was useless and that it was due to her grace and mercy that I live in New Zealand," he said. </p> <p>Paramjit said his life took a turn for the worse, when his parents from India came to live in New Zealand following the birth of his daughter. </p> <p>"My wife started misbehaving with them as well. She made them do all the homework, look after our child – she started treating them like slaves. Whenever I questioned her behaviour, she would threaten that she would complain to the Police and have me arrested for domestic violence," he said. </p> <p>Paramjit said the abuse became so unbearable that he once contemplated suicide. </p> <p>He recently left his wife to live with his parents. </p> <p>There are at least three such cases in Wellington, currently under our investigation. </p> <p>East Auckland resident Ramesh (not his real name) had a similar experience. </p> <p>The young man, from Karnataka in South India, married a young woman, born and raised in New Zealand, hoping for a happier life. </p> <p>He has a successful career as an engineer, but at home, he is a nervous wreck. </p> <p>"This person, who calls herself a woman, has no love or care for me and our only male child, who is now three years old. I have been married for five years now, but life is hell. I do all the housework, including cooking, washing and cleaning, after a long day at work. Sometimes I do shift duty but that does not mean a thing at home. I still have to do all the work," he said. </p> <p>He said his wife liked to have parties at home with friends and their families at least once a month, at each of which he becomes an object of ridicule. </p> <p>"She takes great pleasure in announcing to her friends that I am a good-for-nothing man and that she had made the greatest mistake in marrying me. I have often talked to her about divorce but she simply does not care. I continue to suffer," he said. </p> <p>Ramesh has not contemplated leaving the house and living separately, for fear of upsetting his aged parents in India. </p> <p>But the case of Satish (not his real name) in Central Auckland was among the worst that we have heard during our interviews. </p> <p>Born and raised in a poor family in India, Satish was married to a rich woman of Indian origin in New Zealand less than a year ago. </p> <p>"I came to this country on a visitor visa to live with my wife, her parents and three brothers. Three days after my arrival, I was asked to do all the housework. I obtained a work permit with the help of a friendly neighbour. They would still not help me in cooking and washing. My wife and I have a joint bank account and I do not get a cent for personal expenses. Life is hell," he said. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-72573029369434657342010-04-13T02:22:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.660-08:00Ayesha Siddiqui could have tried trapping other men in past<p>And <a href="http://menrightsindia.blogspot.com/2010/04/women-organisations-and-domestic.html">after news of demand of 1.5 crore (the 10% cut) from Ayesha Siddiqui</a>, the saga deepens further:</p> <p><a title="Ayesha Siddiqui could have framed other men too in past" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life/people/Ayeshas-done-this-to-me-too/articleshow/5784755.cms">Ayesha Siddiqui could have framed other men too in past</a></p> <blockquote> <p>Chicago-based businessman Feroze Jalal says Ayesha Siddiqui is no pained wife, and that she tried to con him the same way she ‘framed’ Shoaib Malik. </p> <p>Hyderabad is my hometown —which I will soon be visiting, probably in June. I’m currently settled in Chicago with my wife. When I read the news about Pakistani cricketer Shoaib Malik and his alleged link up with the Hyderabad based-Ayesha Siddiqui, what immediately struck me was the name of the woman — since I’ve known her, and had a similar experience, many years back. And in light of that experience, I feel that Ayesha may well have framed Shoaib. What has happened with Shoaib is very sad, and I can understand it better than most because I have gone through similar trauma, because of what Ayesha had done with me a few years back. </p> <p>In 1997, while I was in Jeddah, I started receiving some crank calls on my phone. I found out that it was my ex-girlfriend’s friend who was making the calls. I then got to know her name —Ayesha Siddiqui. Yes, the same Ayesha who supposedly has just ‘divorced’ Shoaib Malik. </p> <p>I was only 20 years old at that time. I would keep getting these crank calls everyday. Finally, I decided to speak to her. She introduced herself as Ayesha Siddiqui. Slowly, we both started talking. Sometimes, we’d talk over the phone for hours and hours. She has a typical Pakistani accent. One day, I asked her if she would meet me, and she readily agreed. We decided to meet at a super mall in Jeddah. When I reached the mall and waited for her, a slim, beautiful girl walked up to me and introduced herself, saying, ‘Hi, I’m Ayesha.” We sat and chatted for some time, but after she left, I realised that her voice didn’t sound the same as it did on the phone. I had my doubts. I therefore got in touch with one of my friends, who was Ayesha’s neighbour. His description of Ayesha was very different from what the girl I had met looked like, and he also told me that the girl who had come to meet me at the mall was not Ayesha, but a friend of hers. The next time that I asked Ayesha to meet me, she didn’t turn up at all. </p> <p>On the phone, Ayesha would cry, and ask me to marry her all the time, and I would refuse. She was crazy and madly in love with me, or so I thought. I finally got irritated of all this and stopped attending her calls. Our relationship lasted only for about six months. </p> <p>Finally, later, I got to know about Ayesha’s real identity, her family, etc, through a common friend. I got to know that she had been calling other boys too, and talking to them the same way, and trying to somehow force them to marry her. In fact, one of my close friends, whom I’ll just call K (since his family doesn't know about all this), who was at that time staying in Hyderabad, had started receiving similar crank calls from Ayesha. When I told K about Ayesha, he also gave up talking to her. He is now, fortunately, happily married and settled in Australia. </p> <p>I strongly feel that Ayesha needs proper medication. She seems normal to speak to at first, but she is not quite a ‘normal’ personality. I think she is just looking for fame and money. What appears stranger is that her parents seem to be supporting her in all this. She has probably trapped Shoaib and framed him. </p> <p>And yes, I’m saying this all on record, as my wife is fully aware of this episode. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-32972965332078315482010-04-11T23:36:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.754-08:00Women organisations and Domestic Violence industry exposed in Shoaib Malik case<p>So you could never believe that many claims of domestic violence by women are nothing but a way to extort money from men using helpful legal fraternity, media, and judiciary to their advantage?  You need proof, right?  You are an intelligent person, who can think for themselves, and you care enough for women empowerment to waste your time listening to this lunatic fringe of so called men rights activists who have coined the phrase <em>domestic violence industry?  </em>So read the story below.</p> <p><a title="Mediators in Shoaib-Ayesha settlement want share of 15-cr pie" href="http://www.mid-day.com/news/2010/apr/120410-shoaib-ayesha-settlement-mediators-money-demand-shiraj-khan.htm">Mediators in Shoaib-Ayesha settlement want share of 15-cr pie</a></p> <blockquote> <p>People who came across as well-wishers during her moment of crisis are turning tormentors for Pak cricketer Shoaib Malik's first wife Ayesha Siddiqui. Reason: They think Ayesha made Rs 15 crore from her ex-husband Shoaib Malik and they want their pound of flesh.</p> <p>…</p> <p>…</p> <p>Shiraj Sareen Khan, president of the United Women Front, who had filed a suit with the State Human Rights Commission on Ayesha's behalf, says she expects 10 per cent of the rumoured Rs 15 crore settlement for her crucial role in resolving the crisis.</p> <p><img border="0" alt="" src="http://www.mid-day.com/imagedata/2010/apr/shiraj.jpg" /></p> <p><strong>Kyon paisa paisa karti hai?</strong> Shiraj Sareen Khan, president of the United Women Front said she wants the money for her organisation, not herself. <strong>Pic/AFP</strong></p> <p>"I don't want money for myself. All I want is a donation for our organisation, which is fighting for vulnerable women like Ayesha. I heard that Shoaib gave Rs 15 crore to Ayesha before he signed the divorce papers. If this is true, at least 10 per cent of the amount should be donated to our organisation," said Shiraj Khan.</p> </blockquote> <p>So she does not want money for herself, but donation for her organisation!  Great, such selfless thoughts on her part, right?  DEAD WRONG.  This is exactly how the domestic violence industry works.  These women organisations ‘help’ women to file false cases of domestic violence, child abuse, any worse possible cruelty you can dream about which can be done to women/children.  They again ‘help’ during the extortion negotiations and take their cut or share of the final money paid by the hostage who pays the ransom to free himself/ family members from false cases.  You will never know how that money will be divided amongst the members of that women organisations.  Basically, a few top members along with some lawyers probably will take the lion’s share of the whole sum.  The rest will go to fund propaganda, organise activism etc to ensure that more women in future can be attracted to approach this woman organisation and can be ‘helped’ in similar ways.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-22042731438651399262010-04-08T05:45:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.853-08:00Hyderabad police scores international 498a<p>So finally it is out!  In the Shoaib Malik-Sania Mirza-Ayesha Siddiqui episode, Ayesha has settled for maintenance Rs 5,000 per month (really!)…. and her mother is very happy that “justice has been done”.  As if you will go to international media with all your gory details of fornications (if there was no marriage then it is fornication as per Pakistani law) in star hotels, then miscarriage -- all to get Rs 5,000 of maintenance for 3 months!</p> <p>The real deal is given in news below… 15 crores was the price</p> <p><a title="Shoaib-Ayesha settle at 15 crores" href="http://movies.indiatimes.com/news-gossip/news/Shoaib-Ayesha-settle-at-15-crores/articleshow/5773239.cms">Shoaib-Ayesha settle at 15 crores</a></p> <blockquote> <p>Following late night negotiations spearheaded by several Muslim leaders from the Congress, including cricketer-cum-Member of Parliament Mohammad Azharuddin, Andhra Pradesh Minorities Welfare Minister Mohammed Ahmadullah, and Pradesh Congress Committee general secretary Abid Rasool Khan, the matter was resolved and Ayesha's family will withdraw all cases against Shoaib lodged with Hyderabad police. Officially, Ayesha will get Rs 5,000 as mehr for three months during the Iddat period as her alimony according to the Shariat law. The Siddiqui family emphatically denies any additional money changing hands but sources close to the family have told this newspaper that Shoaib has agreed to pay Rs 12 crore directly to Ayesha and her family and another Rs 3 crore towards sundry ‘costs.’</p> </blockquote> <p>And Hyderabad police has added a feather to their cap by consummating their highest (probably) amount exchanged in a 498a extortion.  For your information, here is the official information of Hyderabad police where they tell women in most ‘helpful’ manner on when NOT to file 498a on husband to help prevent abuse of 498a.  They have termed it as women’s corner. You get the idea!</p> <p><a title="http://www.hyderabadpolice.gov.in/WomenCorner/498A.htm" href="http://www.hyderabadpolice.gov.in/WomenCorner/498A.htm">http://www.hyderabadpolice.gov.in/WomenCorner/498A.htm</a></p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-19978001032383178962010-04-06T22:44:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:21.946-08:00Congress and BJP MPs scuttle seat reservation for women<p>This had to happen, but it took that long because no-one in their stupid political correct mind (read: cowardly mind) could take on the notion that women empowerment and women reservation in parliament need not be done by trampling on democratic rights of people to contest elections, and citizens to choose their candidates.</p> <p><a title="Congress left isolated on women's quota" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Congress-left-isolated-on-womens-quota/articleshow/5764819.cms">Congress left isolated on women's quota</a></p> <blockquote> <p>NEW DELHI: The women's bill seems to be going nowhere. On Monday, BJP offered to consider the option of letting political parties implement the 33% quota while Congress's own allies Trinamool Congress, NCP and National Conference urged that the objections of Yadav leaders should not be brushed aside.</p> </blockquote> <p>…</p> <blockquote> <p>BJP leader Sushma Swaraj, while reiterating the party's support for the quota bill, told an all-party meeting that if unanimity could be built on political parties implementing the quota by way of ticket distribution, with the process being overseen by the Election Commission, the BJP was prepared to consider such an option.</p> </blockquote> <p>So finally a large party like BJP has woken to the realities that whatever nonsense the media might spread about women empowerment through seat reservation, the right way to ensure women representation in parliament is by political parties ensuring at time of ticket allocation to enough women candidates!</p> <blockquote> <p>If the BJP positioning -- perhaps a reflection of deep discontent among its Lok Sabha MPs -- was a surprise, Congress's allies like Trinamool chief Mamata Banerjee batted strongly for the Yadavs, urging that interests of the "weaker sections" not be overlooked. With NCP and National Conference also chipping in, government does not seem to be in a position to bring the bill to Lok Sabha.</p> </blockquote> <p>Finally some men in parliament said enough is enough and we can’t allow our seats to be taken away from us after doing the hard work (or so we hope) in nurturing the constituency.</p> <blockquote> <p>The BJP's shift seems dictated by a virtual vertical split in the saffron outfit against the quota legislation. But it strikes a chord with male MPs across party lines like Congress who may not speak in the open. It also aligned the party with Shiv Sena which made a similar plea.</p> </blockquote> <p>Ha ha … a politician is a politician, and there are so many males in parliament that they had to get together to scuttle the bill.  It is really the male members of Congress and BJP who have come together on the issue and BJP has been made the face of this new suggestion.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-4896569095943942842010-04-05T22:35:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.042-08:00Shoaib episode: Indian feminists rubbing their hands with glee<p>In Sania Mirza-Shoaib Malik episode, some people think about it as marriage of celebrities, some think about whether it will do something good to Indo-Pak relations and so on.  But there is a curious species on this planet which only seems to be interested in getting men behind bars – and you guessed it right, it goes by the name <em>Indian feminists.</em></p> <p><a title="Friends find Siddiqui family’s tactics strange" href="http://www.deccanherald.com/content/62183/friends-find-siddiqui-familys-tactics.html">Friends find Siddiqui family’s tactics strange</a></p> <p>From the above news story, this is what a women’s organisation representative has to say:</p> <blockquote> <p>Women activists Deccan Herald spoke to agree it is a complex case and they are happy they don’t have to deal with it. </p> </blockquote> <p><em>It is a complex case and they are happy they don’t have to deal with it.</em>  Am I surprised?  When were feminists dealing with issues of substance, except heaping insults and hatred on men in general in the name of injustice to women?  Further this is what a woman who works for tribal women and children has to say:</p> <blockquote> <p>Dr Rukmini Rao who heads Gramya that works amidst tribal women and children said if Ayesha is to be believed that she had undergone mental torture as Shoaib wanted her to lose weight, then under Indian law he could be arrested. </p> </blockquote> <p>So this woman and child empowerment expert thinks in her expert opinion that if an Indian man wants wife to lose weight, then her wife is right in filing a “mental torture” (better known as IPC 498a) case on husband, and husband can be arrested!  Bravo…. hope you are doing some real good work for the tribal women and children.</p> <blockquote> <p> <br />“If Shoaib was an ordinary citizen, if he was not a cricketing star and and not a Muslim, he would be behind bars.What he has done is absolutely illegal and unwarranted. Being an icon he should set an example,” she said.</p> </blockquote> <p>So the feminists have given away their secret sauce which they use to repress Indian men’s freedoms and liberty.  One – you should be ordinary citizen, Two – you should not be cricketing star, Three – you should not be a Muslim; and going by these criteria at least 80% of Indian men will be eligible for special <em>treatment </em>made for men by Indian feminazis.  There you have the perfect ingredients for any Indian woman to torture and repress his husband using Indian laws and judiciary to her advantage.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-41351810387987590332010-04-01T08:06:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.136-08:00Indira Jaising with her feminazi logic, read and appreciate<p>The additional solicitor general of India, Indira Jaising who is also a prominent feminazi writes about women in parliament, but the article betrays the warped and perverse mentality of all feminists.</p> <p><a title="Tomorrow we will see the power of women in Parliament" href="http://www.mynews.in/News/Tomorrow_we_will_see_the_power_of_women_in_Parliament_N40143.html">Tomorrow we will see the power of women in Parliament</a></p> <blockquote> <p>It came as a shock to me that in most developed countries, including Germany and the Netherlands, women constitute not more than 5 per cent of elected representatives in parliamentary bodies. </p> <p> <br />I also learnt that women do not receive equal pay for equal work in these countries. </p> <p> <br /><strong>Indeed, while reporting on the Netherlands, the minister said that women 'choose' home-based part-time work as part of their right to choose to stay home with their children! </strong></p> </blockquote> <p>Go easy on the exclamation mark woman.  It is a woman’s choice how she wants to divide her time between work and children.</p> <blockquote> <p>On the other hand, <strong>Rwanda, which had emerged out of genocide and would be expected to be backward by all economic parameters, had 58 per cent women</strong> as elected representatives in parliament.</p> <p>This was thanks to the provision in their constitution for reservation for women. It was then that I realised that there was no relationship between development and gender justice and that <strong>development does not necessarily lead to equality for women</strong>.</p> </blockquote> <p>Development leads to more prosperity and opportunity for everyone including women, but the feminazis are usually worried only about female supremacy and not really justice for females.</p> <blockquote> <p>Critics there too argued that they would have to appoint 'escort girls' to the board, as men here argue that women in panchayats would have pati-panchs deputing for them as an argument against reservations. <strong>These and many others are self-serving arguments, intended to preserve privilege. </strong></p> </blockquote> <p>Henceforth all privileges will be granted only to female supremacists, who have no accountability except they were females by birth and it is their privilege to have privileges by way of their gender.</p> <blockquote> <p>We have finally woken up to the realisation that the demands of equal representation for women cannot be denied for another century or more. <strong>An equal society means a society in which men and women have equal opportunity in all walks of life, including political representation.</strong></p> </blockquote> <p>Funny you should say equal opportunity, when a man cannot stand for election from reserved seats for women, but a woman can fight election either on reserved seat or on open seats.  It will be equal opportunity when there were reserved seats for men too!</p> <blockquote> <p>The sheer numbers of women to be seen in Parliament in the very near future will form a critical mass, never before seen in any country in the world save a few which have chosen the path of reservation for women.</p> </blockquote> <p>And the feminists are secretly gloating that what they could never do in US or Europe, they may be able to do in India.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-75268246387429041782010-04-01T07:54:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.233-08:00Feminists’ myths about domestic violence being busted<p><a title="Newer Perspectives on Domestic Violence" href="http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/display/article/10168/1546465?CID=rss&verify=0">Newer Perspectives on Domestic Violence</a></p> <p>That domestic violence is a preserve of men is demolished by this data on lesbian couples:</p> <blockquote> <p>Nor is the incidence of DV among lesbian cohorts minimal. In fact, abuse among lesbians occurs with far greater frequency than among heterosexuals (given as 24% by the study above), and far more frequently than male-on-female abuse. Estimates of abuse have ranged between 47% and 73% (Coleman, 1990; Bologna, Waterman, Dawson, 1987; Lie. et al. 1991) among lesbian subjects who responded to questionnaires assessing prevalence of some form of physical, sexual, or emotional-psychological abuse in at least one relationship. Estimates of verbal abuse in lesbian relationships have been as high as 95% (Kelly & Warshafsky, 1987). About half of lesbian subjects who participated in research surveys indicated they had experienced 10 or more abusive incidents during their relationships, and about three-quarters had experienced 6 or more (Renzetti 1992). </p> </blockquote> <p>That men are more aggressive than women is probably only a convenient stereotype associated with physical aggression of men.  The study has to say this about differences in aggression behaviour between men and women:</p> <blockquote> <p>In a paper from the <i>American Journal of Orthopsychiatry</i>, Anne Conway<sup>6</sup> summarizes her important study on “Girls, Aggression, and Emotion Regulation” as follows: “Many studies have demonstrated that boys are more aggressive than girls (see J.D. Cole & K. Dodge, 1997, for a review) and that emotion regulation difficulties are associated with problematic behaviours. However, recent findings indicate that gender differences in aggressive behaviour disappear when assessments are broadened to include relational aggression—behaviours designed to harm the relationship goals of others by spreading rumours, gossiping, and eliciting peer rejection of others (The author has heard the term “Soul Murder” given to such behaviours and the results can often be deadly.) Moreover, although difficulties regulating emotions have been reported for physically aggressive children, little research has examined these processes in relationally aggressive children.”</p> </blockquote> <p>And goes on to demolish the myth of women being always peacemakers and men always being violent from point of view of anthropology:</p> <blockquote> <p>In her seminal study, Male and Female, the renowned anthropologist Margaret Mead<sup>14</sup> states the following: “There are even those who have argued that women are inherently more peaceful than men. On further examination, it would seem that there is little evolutionary basis for this argument. There seems very little ground for claiming that the mother of young children is more peaceful, more responsible, and more thoughtful for the welfare of the human race than is her husband and brother.”</p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-39777477561152233782010-03-31T01:32:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.329-08:00Rape of men and boys can not be brushed away<p>According to a UK study, 8% of recorded rape victims are male.</p> <p><a title="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/mar/17/stern-review-male-rape" href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/mar/17/stern-review-male-rape">Rape is not just a women's issue</a></p> <blockquote> <p>According to the Stern Review, the victim is male in around 8% of all recorded rape cases. The unrecorded figure is thought to be far higher.</p> <p>Rape and sexual assault are seen as women's issues – the victims are female, the perpetrators male. But it is no longer acceptable to pretend, as some do, that rape and sexual assault are only committed by men against women. The proportion of men who go on to report sexual assault is extremely low and the number of victims greater than the government or media coverage would suggest. Male rape victims face an enormous amount of social prejudice in coming forward. One organisation working with male victims told the Stern Review: "Very few men will access the police to report a rape, they don't want to feel less of a man, don't want to be regarded as gay."</p> </blockquote> <p>If the logic of sexual abuse and rape laws exclusive to women because most victims are females, was applied to murder statistics, then murder laws should be applicable only against males.  </p> <p><strong>Because in India, more than one lakh people are murdered every year and 90 % are male.</strong></p> <p><strong>More than two lakh people die in accidents and 85% are male.</strong></p> <p>So if feminists’ logic of using statistics to push for gender biased laws was true, then laws related to murder should apply only to murder of males, and accident compensation should be given only to men!</p> <p>Now men have to wake up and change the biased laws they helped create!</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-87339691093063661532010-03-31T01:28:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.338-08:00Hillary Clinton’s letter to Indian women: more lies<p>Hillary Clinton is at it again to ever confuse women empowerment with female supremacy and is now spreading her male-hate message in garb of addressing women leaders of India.</p> <p><a title="http://newdelhi.usembassy.gov/pr032410c.html" href="http://newdelhi.usembassy.gov/pr032410c.html">Secretary Clinton's letter to women leaders in India</a></p> <p>Just one excerpt from letter:</p> <blockquote> <p>As you come together today, you recognize that economic progress and democratic progress depend on women's progress.  You recognize that the freedom and empowerment of women helps them to flourish, and that <strong>when women flourish, families flourish, whole communities flourish and entire nations flourish.</strong></p> </blockquote> <p>This is just one example how issues like poverty, opportunity, discrimination are now being women-ified under feminist discourse.  It is not important to take care of other half (men) of society.  Help women only, and everything will become fine!</p> <p>The other point is the same feminists are ever ready to break families, let children grow without fathers, and then have the guts to talk about welfare of families and communities.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-15749729022258432012010-03-31T01:22:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.431-08:00Pathetic NCW tries its luck again with Supreme Court<p>If the <a href="http://menrightsindia.blogspot.com/2010/03/ncw-is-helping-itself-with-taxpayer.html">news of NCW mismanaging its funds was not enough</a>, here they go again at wasting more funds on non-issues.</p> <p><a title="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Kicking-bahu-not-cruelty-SC-to-review/articleshow/5717470.cms" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Kicking-bahu-not-cruelty-SC-to-review/articleshow/5717470.cms">Kicking bahu not cruelty? SC to review</a></p> <blockquote> <p>The National Commission for Women, through counsel Aparna Bhat, moved a curative petition requesting reconsideration of the judgment in the case between Bhaskar Lal Sharma and his daughter-in-law Monica. Curative petitions normally have a 99% failure rate in the apex court. </p> <p>NCW said the ruling would defeat the very purpose of the provision to protect women from cruelty and harassment in matrimonial homes. </p> </blockquote> <p>Yeah… if you define cruelty to woman the way a feminist defines: <em>“like he looked at me in a strange way, and I was terrified”</em></p> <blockquote> <p>NCW had reflected the views of Karat who had said the apex court's decision would only "further deepen the miseries of women and undo the effect of various legislations passed for the emancipation of women".</p> </blockquote> <p>Oh please, the revered section 498a of IPC that is being talked about <a href="http://www.498a.org.in/rsrcs_RTI_DA498ABenglr.html">has less than 1% conviction rate</a>.  300-400 times no of men and families are being arrested under this law for emancipation of 1 woman!  People from other planets will have to put behind bars before all women in India could be emancipated by usage of this law.</p> <blockquote> <p>The NCW said in its petition: "The manner in which `cruelty' is defined makes it clear that each condition is exclusive to each other. Hence, section 498A is not confined to dowry demand. It includes demand for dowry and resultant harassment caused to women but also includes cruelty in matrimony caused to the women without the demand for dowry." </p> </blockquote> <p>And NCW fails to mention that the cruelty must of of kind to threaten life or limb of woman, or such mental cruelty which could drive her to commit suicide.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-83404541802666142802010-03-31T01:04:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.527-08:00Who needs fathers: BBC documentary<p> BBC is recently doing a documentary on cruel system in UK denying fathers access to their children.</p> <p><a title="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/features/7528771/Agony-of-the-frozen-out-fathers.html" href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/features/7528771/Agony-of-the-frozen-out-fathers.html">Agony of the frozen-out fathers: BBC documentary</a></p> <p> </p> <blockquote> <p>Watching a preview of next week’s BBC series Who Needs Fathers?, I felt ashamed to be a woman. The men on the programme appeared to be loving, attentive fathers – not extremists in Batman costumes. All they wanted was to play their part in the upbringing of their children. But, at every turn, it seemed, vengeful, short-sighted women were selfishly trying to thwart them. </p> </blockquote> <p>Further there are some statistics on number of children who are growing up without fathers, the figures do not seem much different from India’s:</p> <blockquote> <p>Too few children are growing up with that balance. Ninety three per cent of children live with their mother after a separation, and half then lose touch with the non-resident parent. That’s a tragedy not only for the fathers, but for the grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins who would otherwise provide a support network for those children. </p> </blockquote> <p>The most tragic part is that such an initiative by BBC to highlight injustice to fathers may be the first and last:</p> <blockquote> <p>Despite fears that speaking out will harm participants’ contact arrangements, Fielden is glad to have found the brief window of opportunity in which to tell their stories. Last year, it became legal to report on the family courts, but a Bill is going through Parliament that would make it impossible, once again, to film people who have been involved in family legal disputes. “It’s unlikely that we would ever again be able to make a programme about this important issue,” she says.</p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-51583657628901785042010-03-31T00:56:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.624-08:00Rape by women, and why gender biased laws are evil<p>Two newspaper articles below show the reality of rape by women.  Anyone in Indian government or legislature who is making laws only to protect women must be having their eyes closed, or waiting for a near and dear one to be sexually abused or raped by a woman, before they admit reluctantly to it.</p> <p>Interesting point is: the feminists always protest against making sexual abuse laws to be gender neutral.  If the same logic was applied to murder statistics, then murder laws should be applicable only against males.  <strong>Because in India, more than one lakh people are murdered every year and 90 % are male.</strong></p> <p><strong>More than two lakh people die in accidents and 85% are male.</strong></p> <p>So if feminists’ logic of using statistics to push for gender biased laws was true, then laws related to murder should apply only to murder of males, and accident compensation should be given only to men!</p> <p>Enough rave and rant, now the 2 news items below:</p> <p>University of California, Santa Barbara <br /><a href="http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/rape-by-women">http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/rape-by-women</a></p> <blockquote> <p>Rape by Women <br />============= </p> <p>Occurrence </p> <p>Although it is not commonly reported, or even discussed, females commit a significant number of rapes. It has been estimated that around 10,000 rapes committed each year in the United States are perpetrated by women. In fact, many experts believe that this number is an under representation, due to the fact that female rapes are very rarely reported. </p> <p>Characteristics </p> <p>Victims of female rape are usually older, weaker, or handicapped. Frequently, female rapists use objects to sodomize, rape, and overpower their victims. However, most females accused of rape are accomplices to male rapists and do not physically violate the victim. <br />Children are the most frequent victims of female rape. This usually takes form in statutory rape, or sexual intercourse between an adult woman and a consenting minor. Studies have shown that women involved in these relations are frequently seeking a substitute lover because they are alone, have a low self-worth, or are in a bad or violent relationship. Female rape of children can also take the form of incest or child molestation. In both of these cases, victims are not likely to come forward because the perpetrator is female. </p> <p>Why Women Rape </p> <p>Studies have shown that female rapists are driven by the same forces as their male counterparts: power, hostility, violence, alcohol or drug abuse, mental illness, and opportunity. Many female rapists were themselves victims of rape, incest or molestation at some point in life. Also, female accomplices to male rapists are commonly forced by threat of bodily harm to help in the perpetration of the crime. </p> <p>Male Victims of Female Rape </p> <p>Female rapes of men go largely unreported by male victims, and few men seek counseling or support. Men who do talk about their experience show similar effects as female victims of rape: loss of self-esteem, self-blame, fear of intimacy, and depression. Because many states do not include women in their rape statutes, female rapists go largely unpunished. Men are also discouraged from bringing female rapists to trial for fear that a judge or jury will not believe their story. </p> <p>--------- </p> <p><a href="http://www.merinews.com/article/women-can-rape-men-too/155880.shtml">http://www.merinews.com/article/women-can-rape-men-too/155880.shtml</a></p> <p>Women can rape men too </p> <p>Lina Sinha, 40, began having sex with one of the pupils at the private Montessori International School of New York, when he was 12. And you thought only men could rape women, there's a darker side to the truth? Read on... </p> <p>Rohan Mon, Jan 12, 2009 17:54:47 IST </p> <p>THERE IS a false notion among people that all rapists are men and that women can never rape men or commit sexual crimes on men. This article intends to educate the society about the darker side of the truth and to get men shed their false ego that men alone can rape. </p> <p>A glaring example of reverse case is that of an Indian origin female teacher and director at an exclusive Manhattan private school who was, a couple of years ago, charged with statutory rape and sodomy of two male pupils. </p> <p>Lina Sinha, 40, began having sex with one of the pupils at the private Montessori International School of New York, which encourages pupils to learn and develop their creativity at their own pace, when he was 12, assistant district attorney Florence Chapin told the court. </p> <p>Sinha began sexual liaisons with the other boy, now a New York City police officer, when he was 13 and she was 29, the prosecutor said, adding that the liaison lasted for years. </p> <p>Earlier, Sinha was charged with crime against just one boy. Later, Chapin disclosed the case of the second boy during a hearing in Manhattan's state Supreme Court, in which she told Justice Carol Berkman that Sinha was now charged with 81 crimes. Chapin had asked the judge to set the teacher's bail at $ 100,000. </p> <p>Prosecutors had said Sinha had family ties in India and could possibly flee. </p> <p>Chapin said Sinha, on administrative leave from the school on Manhattan's East Side, began a sexual relationship with the first pupil in June, 1996, when he was a 13-year-old, an eighth-grader. She was charged in October 2005, with raping him. </p> <p>When he had tried to end the affair in 2004, Chapin said, "Sinha tried to ruin his life by making up heinous allegations that he raped a young girl and then made separate allegations that he also brutally assaulted the defendant (Sinha)." </p> <p>Sinha assumed another person's identity on at least 10 occasions in 2004-05 to file rape charges in person, by telephone and by e-mail, claiming the policeman had raped her niece, the prosecutor had said. </p> <p>Investigators found the person whose identity Sinha had assumed and that person said she did not have a niece, had never reported any rape and did not know the victim or the defendant, the prosecutor said. </p> <p>The officer reported his former relationship with Sinha to police after the teacher tried to frame him and about a week before the five-year statute of limitations on her sex crimes would have expired, the prosecutor said. </p> <p>Prosecutors said Sinha could not be charged with improper sexual contact with her former pupil after he turned 17 because that is the age of consent in New York State. </p> <p>Meanwhile, in January 2001, Sinha began a sexual liaison with the second pupil, who was 12 and in the seventh grade, Chapin said. </p> <p>Besides rape and sodomy, Sinha was charged with criminal impersonation, bribing a witness, tampering with physical evidence, endangering the welfare of a child and falsely reporting an incident. If convicted on the rape or sodomy charges, she would face up to 25 years in prison. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-50381889836664119072010-03-31T00:42:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.720-08:00NCW is helping itself with taxpayer money, but just not helping women<p>Fresh news breaks about National Commission for Women’s wayward ways with taxpayer money:</p> <p><a title="Audit raps NCW for huge backlog, spendthrift ways" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Audit-raps-NCW-for-huge-backlog-spendthrift-ways/articleshow/5744075.cms">Audit raps NCW for huge backlog, spendthrift ways</a></p> <blockquote> <p>NEW DELHI: * Of the 12,895 complaints that came to National Commission for Women (NCW) between 2008-09, only a little over half (7,509) were addressed<strong>. Of these, only 14% could be disposed of. </strong></p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Conclusion: </strong>The words Accountability and NCW should never be used in the same sentence.</p> <blockquote> <p>* Out of the 22 NGOs or individuals that were given grants worth Rs 22 lakh for research projects,<strong> 15 have not even submitted an interim report. </strong></p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Conclusion: </strong>What a women’s NGO does with taxpayer money is nobody else’s business.</p> <blockquote> <p>* Mandatory requirements like jail visits to assess living conditions of women have not been made for the past 4 years. </p> <p>These observations, made by the Comptroller & Auditor General's (CAG) inspection report, indicate the malaise that has crept into the NCW. The commission, set up to mitigate hardships and address concerns of women, has run into rough weather itself. </p> <p>The inspection found that of the 12,895 cases, 7,509 were taken up. Of these, only 1,077 were disposed of. </p> <p>Admitting that the commission was battling a huge backlog of cases, NCW chairperson Girija Vyas said, "The rate of disposal is low because of several reasons. We lack trained manpower and resources. We are at present managing with a small staff whereas the number of complaints has been steadily increasing. Several of the complaints that come to us are being fought in court. We cannot send people away on the plea that the matter is subjudice. But I am concerned about the large number of cases and have demanded additional trained manpower." </p> <p>Another major lapse pointed out by the audit report is that no jail visit -- as mandated under the NCW Act -- was made between 2006-2007 to 2008-2009. Also, grants amounting to Rs 23.30 lakh were made to 22 NGOs/individuals between 2005-2006 and 2008-2009. Of these 22 cases, even the interim report was not received in 15 cases after a lapse of 5 to 30 months. Incidentally, the commission has not even initiated any action to recover the grant from the defaulters who failed to comply with the time schedule prescribed. </p> <p>The inspection report notes that "the internal control in the NCW to monitor timely submission of interim/final reports was <strong>ineffective in monitoring the compliance to the terms of the research study grant/assistance</strong>". </p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Comment: </strong>To spread male-hatred in name of gender studies requires no research grant, just willingness to shout about gender injustice and party on with the money women NGOs get.</p> <blockquote> <p>Vyas said the commission was in the process of scrutinising each case and blacklisting the NGOs that had failed to perform. "We are now giving research studies to universities and state commissions to avoid these problems. <strong>We also plan to blacklist those who have been unable to deliver</strong>," Vyas said. </p> </blockquote> <p><strong>Comment: </strong>Interested activists should file an RTI on NCW to find out the blacklist soon.  It is your money they are playing with and spreading anti-male lies with that.</p> <blockquote> <p>Other irregularities pointed out by CAG include irregular payment of pay and allowances amounting to Rs 71.68 lakh against lapsed posts, excessive expenditure on seminars and meetings amounting to over Rs 32 lakh and travel allowance and daily allowance claims that the inspection report was unable to verify. </p> <p>Vyas, however, said all these financial objections raised by the audit had been addressed. "We have replied to all the objections raised by the CAG on financial irregularities to their satisfaction," she said. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-53815024187477073602010-03-31T00:33:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.816-08:00Fake Taliban video to demonize men?<p>Sent by Stan Rains:</p> <blockquote> <p>For those who recall the international furor over the video of the Taliban publicly whipping a girl for being seen in public with a married man, <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/video/2009/apr/02/swat-valley-flogging">http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/video/2009/apr/02/swat-valley-flogging</a> , it has been recently announced after a criminal investigation that the video was a fake.  An NGO or private group with a special interest created the video and paid all present who participated in the event, including the girl who is supposedly being whipped.</p> <p> <br />I am not defending the Taliban, I am addressing the lack of truth and balance in reporting gender issues.   The video was meant to wrongly demonize men.  It was presented as truth of abuse of girls by men with the intent to stir emotions.   It is propaganda.  The video is a lie.  It relies on man-hate myth to attempt to discredit a group that has already discredited itself, the Taliban.  The only real agenda is to associate men with abuse of women and children.   The violence of the Taliban in its murder of innocent men, women, and children is well known and needs no fraudulent video to make the point.</p> <p> <br />The video made national news around the world on the major media networks.  But, there is very little on the exposing of the fraud and the admissions of the participants, including the girl and child witnesses present for the filming of the fake video. <br />A quick Google search on this topic will provide you with the handful of news operations reporting the Pakistani government's exposure of this fraud. </p> <p> <br />This is just one more example of the major media becoming a disconnected dinosaur destined for extinction because of their imbalance of reporting.</p> <p> <br />Thanks to the Pakistani parents rights activists who have recently made the rest of the world aware of this newly exposed feminist fraud. </p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-12722275108685624472010-03-23T08:27:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:22.912-08:00Mulayam Yadav cites danger about males missing in parliament<p>I was pleased to note that the <a href="http://menrightsindia.blogspot.com/2010/03/could-women-take-over-whole-parliament.html">danger of males being left out of parliament posted on this blog</a> a while ago is now being voiced by Mr Mulayam Singh Yadav.  He deserves some respect for this because there are very few politicians who are doing straight talk about provisions of WRB which are a clear infringement on Indian men’s constitutional rights.  So it seems that the message about ills of present women’s reservation bill are spreading and politicians are not afraid to voice them.</p> <p><a title="http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_women-s-bill-won-t-let-a-male-be-elected-to-lok-sabha-mulayam-singh_1362475" href="http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_women-s-bill-won-t-let-a-male-be-elected-to-lok-sabha-mulayam-singh_1362475">http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_women-s-bill-won-t-let-a-male-be-elected-to-lok-sabha-mulayam-singh_1362475</a></p> <blockquote> <p>He said not a single male would be elected to the Lok Sabha 10 years after the bill comes into force and advocated quota for the fairer sex within political parties. </p> <p>"Once the bill comes into force, not a single male would be elected to the Lok Sabha after 10 years as elected women would not leave their seats, nor the political parties would be in a position to replace them," he said.</p> <p>Advocating reservation for women within political parties instead, Yadav said it should be made mandatory for them to give 15% tickets to women.</p></blockquote> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3582189612381583618.post-16832526958641435132010-03-22T20:37:00.002-07:002013-11-06T00:09:23.007-08:00Gender neutral sexual harassment bill is welcome step<p> <a title="http://www.telegraphindia.com/1100321/jsp/7days/story_12243297.jsp" href="http://www.telegraphindia.com/1100321/jsp/7days/story_12243297.jsp">http://www.telegraphindia.com/1100321/jsp/7days/story_12243297.jsp</a></p> <blockquote> <p>They were buddies at the call centre they worked in. Rohit and Shalini would often party together or go out for a drink as a twosome. But gradually, Rohit started feeling uncomfortable. It seemed that Shalini had other thoughts about their platonic relationship.</p> <p>One day, Shalini — who is married and has a nine-year-old son — moved to the desk right next to Rohit. Rohit, who is also married, would find her gazing at him between calls. She would brush against him when she passed by.</p> <p>“Even now, she makes no bones about wanting to sleep with me; she says she’ll book a hotel for the occasion if I agree,” says Rohit, adding that the struggle to stay away from Shalini is taking its toll on him. It worries him that at the call centre in Malad, the two are the daily staple of office gossip.</p> </blockquote> <p>Does the above scenario seem impossible.  Yet the feminists would have you believe that sexual harassment laws should be made only to benefit women!  </p> <p> </p> <blockquote> <p>The Bill, which is touted as being gender neutral, proposes the introduction of a new section — 376 (E) — to the Indian Penal Code, 1860, on unlawful sexual acts. “Whoever touches directly or indirectly, with a part of the body or with an object, any part of the body of another person (not being the spouse of such person), with sexual intent and without the consent of such other person, shall be punished with simple imprisonment for a term which may extend to two years or with fine or with both,” it says.</p> <p>The Bill does not specify the sex of the victim. So in effect a man can accuse a woman — or another man — of sexual abuse. But ironically, the Bill has its seeds in the 172nd report of the Law Commission of India, and recommendations drafted by women’s groups around the country, spearheaded by the National Commission for Women (NCW).</p> <p>When women’s groups lobbied for a stronger law they did not have gender neutrality in mind. They merely wanted to tighten laws on sexual assault. <strong>Men who touched women with sexual intent and without consent had to be punished, they said.</strong></p> </blockquote> <p>Hmmm.. they did not believe that there could be men rights advocates who will fight for laws to be made gender neutral.  Wake up feminists!  Men’s team has shown up in the match, so now you got to make effort, make your play, and only then you can hope to win.</p> Liberated Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15683097064917158859noreply@blogger.com0